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Verbal aggression turns into a physical threat long before fists fly. Hereās how to spot itāand stop it.
Hey Warrior,
Most people think self-defense starts when the first punch is thrown.
Thatās a lie that gets people hurt.
The real fight often starts with posture, pressure, and presenceā¦
ā¦long before the hands come up.
And if you wait for āpermissionā to defend yourself, you may be reacting too late to survive.
So hereās the question that makes a lot of people uncomfortableā¦
ā¦Are you allowed to strike first?
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PREEMPTIVE STRIKING ISNāT DIRTY. ITāS SMART.
In this weekās scenario (Jackpot Jawbreaker), Subject 2 gets knocked out by a man who never shouted, never threatened, and never swung ā until he did.
The guy circling with a calm face was the real threat.
But what if it was flipped?
Letās say someoneās in your face.
Theyāre yelling.
Theyāre walking you down.
Theyāre bigger, louder, and closing space.
They havenāt touched you yet, but theyāre clearly forcing the confrontation.
So when do you go?
Hereās the truthā¦
ā¦If youāre unable to walk away ā because of space, position, duty, or people behind you ā and the threat is closing, you may need to strike first.
That doesnāt mean looking for a fight.
It means recognizing when youāre being prevented from leaving one.
And if thatās the case, waiting for the first blow isnāt noble ā itās naive.
TRAIN TO THINK LIKE A WEAPON
If this concept makes you pause ā good.
Because now itās time to turn that thought into training.
When practicing scenario drills or sparring, start adding these layers:
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Verbal Pressure Drills
Simulate someone crowding you. Add loud verbal aggression. Train maintaining posture while trying to de-escalate ā but be ready to strike.
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Distance Integrity Work
Focus on keeping one arm up as a frame. If they close distance while youāre de-escalating, thatās your āgreen lightā moment. Donāt wait to be hit.
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Preemptive Strike Timing
Practice recognizing intent in body language ā angle shifts, eye targeting, weight loading. Then act decisively before the attack lands.
You donāt have to be paranoid. You just have to be prepared.
WATCH THE VIDEO AGAIN
Rewatch Jackpot Jawbreaker and ask yourself:
Could Subject 2 have spotted the incoming strike?
Were there signs in Subject 1ās footwork and posture?
If you were in that casino, how would you have known it was about to go physical?
and then join us for discussion in theā¦
This time, donāt just watch the hit ā watch everything before it.
ā Before You Go...
Hereās your thought for the weekā¦
Would you rather be the first to strike ā or the last to know?
The goal isnāt to hit people. Itās to not get hit.
And sometimes, that means recognizing when your only way out⦠is through.
Think like a weapon.
Train like one too.
ā Paul Simoes
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