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How one brutal move turns a push into a knockoutāno hesitation, no wrestling.
Hey Warrior,
Thereās something about being pushed.
I find it triggering in the worst way.
Itās not the physical joltā¦
ā¦itās the disrespect.
That forward surge canāt really hurt you.
Itās meant to dominate you mentallyā¦
to take your spaceā¦
to throw you off balanceā¦
to put you on your heels before the real damage starts.
So, what can we do about it? Letās exploreā¦
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Most people either freeze⦠or shove back.
Neither is a great option.
A push isnāt just a challengeāitās an opportunity.
when someone rushes in to push you, theyāre not grounded.
Their weight is forward, their posture is stretched out, and their brain is committed to one thing⦠forward.
That means theyāre wide open. And thatās where we take control.
Push Defense
The moment you see them surging ināarms out, posture extendedāyou donāt wait to get driven back.
Your hands are already up, right?
Just before they make contact, slap their hands down hard.
Donāt grab them.
Youāre not trying to fight the pushāyouāre redirecting it.
When you do that with intent, their upper body tips forward.
Their head drops.
Their momentum keeps carrying them, but now itās uncontrolled.
Thatās when your elbow comes upātight, sharp, and straight into the head (more likely face) thatās practically handing itself to you.
Itās fast. Itās simple.
It turns their offensive rush into your clean finish.
No struggle. No wrestling match.
Just timing, structure, and a little brutality.
Jump In the Operators Lounge
If youāve drilled Push Defense, I want to hear about it. Howās the timing feel? What tripped you up? What clicked? Post your thoughts, questions, or footage in the group and letās break it down together.
Before You Go...
The push isnāt an attackāitās a setup.
For them or for you.
The difference is whether you know how to answer it.
Master this one move and youāll never get shoved into someone elseās fight plan again.
Stay sharp,
ā Paul Simoes
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