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👋 Hey Warrior,

Welcome to another week focused on making our martial arts even more practical for real-world situations.

This week's theme is absolutely crucial…

…Stay in Control – Losing control means losing the fight.

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But what does "staying in control" really mean?

It starts with understanding the one thing you can control…

…yourself.

And that means getting familiar with how your body and mind react under sudden, intense pressure.

Your Body's Alarm System

Ever wonder why your heart pounds, palms sweat, or you feel frozen when startled or faced with conflict?

That's your body's built-in alarm system kicking in – the stress response.

It's often called "fight, flight, or freeze."

It’s also what we named this newsletter after ;)

This response is ancient and automatic.

When your brain perceives a threat (whether it's a real physical danger or just intense stress), it floods your system with hormones like adrenaline.

Think of it like hitting the gas pedal hard.

What does this feel like?

• Pounding Heart: Your body is pumping blood faster to your muscles, preparing for action.

• Rapid Breathing: Getting more oxygen ready.

• Tunnel Vision: Your focus narrows intensely on the perceived threat. Peripheral vision might decrease.

• Auditory Exclusion: Background noises might fade as you focus. Or, sometimes, sounds become amplified.

• Shaking/Trembling: It’s often just excess adrenaline burning off.

• Feeling Frozen: This "freeze" response is also common – your brain is rapidly assessing the situation before committing to fight or flight.

It's vital to understand that these are normal physiological reactions.

They aren't signs of weakness; they’re your body trying to help you survive.

Why is knowing this the foundation of control?

Because when these things happen unexpectedly, it can be scary.

You might think, "What's wrong with me?!"

That secondary panic makes everything worse.

But if you know to expect these sensations when under duress, you can acknowledge them without freaking out.

"Ah, there's the adrenaline dump. Okay. My body is doing its job."

This awareness is the first, critical step.

It stops the fear of the feeling from adding another layer of panic, letting you begin to manage the response instead of being swept away by it.

Final Thoughts

Understanding your body's natural stress response is the bedrock of maintaining composure in conflict.

Recognizing what's happening physiologically allows you to stay mentally in the game, which is where true control begins.

Stay safe and train smart,

Paul Simoes

P.S. Knowing what happens is step one. Tomorrow, we'll start diving into practical ways you can begin to manage that stress response in the moment. Stay tuned!

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