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👋 Hey Warrior,

When we train, we often focus on techniques and maybe even sparring.

It’s a great workout.

But what about real self-defense?

That's a completely different game.

The goal isn't to win a medal or score points.

It's simply to get away safely…

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Escape is the real objective.

So, what does that actually mean?

It means your number one priority in a dangerous situation is to create an opportunity to leave.

That might involve using a technique, yes.

But the technique isn't the goal itself.

The goal is the escape that technique might create.

Sometimes the best self-defense is running away before anything physical even happens!

It means getting to a safe place, finding help, or simply putting distance between you and the threat.

Why is this mindset so crucial?

Because thinking you need to "win" a street fight can be dangerous.

Ego has no place in self-defense.

Trying to dominate or punish an attacker puts you at risk for longer.

It keeps you engaged in the conflict.

The longer you're there, the more chances there are for things to go wrong.

Maybe they have friends nearby.

Maybe they have a weapon you didn't see.

Maybe you get injured even if you "win."

Focusing on escape shifts your thinking.

You start looking for opportunities to disengage, not reasons to stay and fight.

Every move, every thought should be about creating that chance to get away safely.

It's about survival, not about proving you're tougher.

This changes how you train and how you react under pressure.

You become more aware of your surroundings and potential exit routes.

Final Thoughts

Remember, your safety is what matters most.

Self-defense isn't about defeating someone…

…it's about protecting yourself.

And often, the very best way to do that is to escape the situation entirely.

Escape first. That's the mission. Stay safe and think smart.

Paul Simoes

P.S. Tomorrow, we'll start exploring how we can actively create those precious escape opportunities during a confrontation. Stay tuned!

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