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š„āļø The One Move to Reclaim Space
Lateābut not dead. Do this when theyāre already inside.
Hey Warrior,
I watch a lot of street fight videos. Probably more than I should.
And the same damn thing happens over and overā¦
Someone gets loud. The other guy tries to āstand his ground.ā
Next thing you know, theyāre practically nose-to-nose.
At that point, itās not self-defenseāitās survival.
You gave up every advantage by letting them step into your space.
And it drives me nuts because the fix is so simple.
Want a reset button?
Here it is.

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Why You Panic
Often times we allow those who violate our space to remain there.
Why?
Well, when someoneās too close, your brain scrambles.
Your body's yelling MOVE!
But you freezeābecause there's nowhere to go. No leverage. No plan.
The panic doesnāt come from the personāit comes from the lack of space.
You canāt see. You canāt breathe. You sure as hell canāt fight.
But you can reset.
If you know what to do.
Frame and Drive
This is where the frame comes in.
Forearm up, elbow tight, palm posted on their chest or shoulder.
Itās not a pushāitās a barrier.
Add one solid step back with your feetālike you mean it.
Boom.
You just bought a second of breathing room. Maybe two.
That second?
Thatās your decision time.
Strike. Escape. Reposition. Up to you.
And yeahāsometimes youāre too late to even frame clean.
If youāre grabbed or pinned, youāll need something else first.
But if your hands are free? This is your get-out-of-jail move.
Your Homework
Grab a partner.
Start chest-to-chest. On a clap or other signal, build your frame and take one hard step back.
Freeze.
Check your posture:
Elbows bent
Head off-line
Wide, stable base
Do 10 reps each.
Start slow. Then add pressure.
Donāt get caught up trying to create distance by pushing your partner back.
Your partner might not budge.
The goal is distanceānot domination.
Super important!
Once you make that spaceāhold the damn frame.
Donāt give it right back.
Stay dangerous.
Paul Simoes
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